I will spare you all of the boring details but instead provide you with, what I hope, will make you want to go to a Special Olympics event or even better yet, volunteer at one. But, then I wonder, "Is it only people that have someone in their life that is special needs that are wowed and humbled by this event?"
First, I want to let you know that I will use the term "typical" referring to a kid that does not have disabilities. I like this term better than "normal" because to me, normal IS my kid. I guess typical better describes the majority of kids, the ones that do not have a disability.
I am going to be selfish and start with me first. We will get it out of the way and focus on what it really is about.
OK, about ME! The thing that is so special about Special Olympics is that I get to feel like a normal parent with my special kid. For once I am surrounded by parents who get what I am going thorough. All of the kids have different issues but they all have issues, and every parent gets it. No matter what. No matter what your issue is, they get it because they too have gone through something similar. The best part is, nobody feels the need to talk about it. I never have had a parent ask me anything about C or his disability or what his issues are. We don't talk about the number of doctors that we see or what services he receives in school or where he falls with his typical peers. So if a kid needs to take their medicine, nothing is ever questioned. AND the best part is, nothing is weird about what the others are doing, or not doing. Nobody stares. Nobody gives funny looks. We all just go about business as if we were typical parents, with typical kids. AND. IT. IS. GREAT! Until, the typical kids come down to breakfast with their soccer team and stare. Hard. (Yes, I notice these things). Ok, but screw them.
So, the Top Ten things about WHAT MAKES SPECIAL OLYMPICS SO SPECIAL?
#10 You get to be a regular parent for once.
I explained this earlier but it is so nice to just belong with the other parents.
#9 Your kid is surrounded by kids that are just like him. Well, not just like him but pretty close. The point is, all of these kids have major struggles in life. These are not struggles that will ever go away.
#8 Your kid finally feels like he connects with someone. One of the hardest things when you have a special needs child, is when you have one that is cognitive enough to know he is different. So, when he connects with the other kids, you know you've hit a home run.
#7 Your kid can finally do things they love to do. Let's face it, playing basketball at the Y or on his school team will. not. last. He will be able to play basketball AND other sports he loves with the Special Olympics for his entire life.
#6 Your kid's confidence soars!
This is a no brainer. Believe it or not, all special needs kids need (and understand) the need to be successful. When they are, well......
#5 Your kid gets the chance to be successful. These kids face daily struggles in their life. It takes a long time for them to be successful at even the basic tasks (such as brushing your teeth or learning how to tie shoes). Special Olympics not only gives them the opportunity to succeed but also to feel GOOD about it!
#4 For once all of the struggles are not part of the day. For once, they are having fun and not getting frustrated or upset.
#3 They feel like typical kids must feel on a daily basis. I'm pretty sure most typical kids feel success regularly. Whether it is on a sport team or academically, I would bet most typical kids feel successful.
#2 These kids can participate into and through adulthood. It will be something they can carry with them through their whole life and have that one thing that makes them feel good and proud of who they are.
#1 The kids have the BEST sportsmanship! I have never seen any sports team have stellar sportsmanship like the Special Olympics athletes. Kids from other teams will help someone up if they fall. They will ask, "Are you ok?" They cheer (loudly) for the other team and they have the utmost respect for every player. Sometimes the athletes do get upset and angry (because some of them ARE very intense) but they never take it out on others, especially the other team. I have even witnessed someone from the other team hand over the ball to a player on the opposite team, just so they could make a basket. Now, THAT is something!
So, I don't know if the reason I feel this way is because I have a Special Olympics athlete or is it because I have been to an event and witnessed these things and have just been awed by the whole thing? I guess it doesn't really matter. What matters is that these kids (and adults) who struggle every day, struggle to fit into the "real" world, struggle to learn new tasks, struggle to make friends, struggle with health issues, etc. these kids deserve to be happy and successful and to feel good about themselves. Even if just for a day.
OH and P.S. Colin's team won the GOLD medal for their division!
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